Just when i'm waiting for jul to finish her work and go off together, i picked up DARE magazine in the office for the new issue.. Ever since i read the last issue, i find the magazine very inspiring and very suited for women of our age or older .. hiak.. so if u all want, can try yea..
This new issue focused on trusting yourself, and having goals in your life. I only read the first few pages before i went off.. i remember there's one part whereby they talk about person goals in life. you know, we all have goals, it's either short goals or long goals. but for every goal, there're milestones for you to step on, before continuing to the next step in achieving your goal.
what's so special about it? everybody knows already. hmm.. they added, milestones can be dangerous too. mainly because, they can cause complacence.. people will have the mentality, thinking, "oh, i've achieved at least something, it's only right i should rest for a while" and some resting can go up to years, and after that, they never continue what they are aiming for already.
They also mentioned that having goals keeps people going. it even concerns how long you can live. The longer your goals last, and you keep going for it, you can live longer.. it's actualy according to surveys. amazing yea? look, some people retire after certain age, and they are satisfied, and 'xiang fu' already. their goal was to achieve that position in the company and etc. they usually pass away earlier..
so... we shall never be satisfied what we're doing! always aim for the best of the best..lolx.. oh ya, DARE also mentioned that often what we didnt manage to achieve, are those that we didnt continue to achieve, the more we attempt, we're actally nearer to achieving our goal.. but often, we gave up, and we lost the goal, just because we didnt peservere enough..that's rather sad eh?
i shall update more when i read more into the magazine! hehe..nice nice.. my next favourite magazine~ yay... :D