I'm neither an optimistic person, no a pessimistic person. In fact, i'm leaning more towards the optimistic side. I believe, whether you're optimistic or pessimistic, it's all in the mind. Seriously.
Though some of you might beg to differ. Yes, surroundings do change your thinking, the environment do more or less changes the way you think about your life. But what ultimately wins? - Your mind.
You can always say, oh my life has been so bad so bad, what happen and blah blah.. Yes, these might have happened. Whining doesnt help. Solving helps. Though you might not have the courage or strength to face it, get help! from who? Friends! or whoever you think that can be your pillar of strength. Religion can make wonders too! As long as your faith is in your religion, believe in it, and make turn it into strength to face your problems.
We get shitty stuff in work / school. We get scoldings, disappointments, anger, mao-ness, ji-ness, tiredness and all sorts of discomfort. Shitty stuff will last if you whine non stop. But they will go away if you turn to your pillar of strength.
I do whine. always! And actually, I hate it when i whine. Because i know, when i whine, my mind starts wandering elsewhere. I whine about how dumb can i get when i always miss my stop, how clumsy am i when i trip and fell, how not hardworking am i when i failed my grade 6 practical and when i get only a pass in my grade 6 theory, how untalented i am when my mocks get rejected, blah blah..
See~ i whine about almost everything. That's kinda bad already. x.x
But on the other hand, I do rejoice, I'm really glad i had my besties around, my tom around, and my family around. They're my pillar of strength.
posted by Cecilia @ 11:08 PM
